What the Bible Should Never Be Used For

Main message: Anyone who uses Scripture to justify or minimize sin—especially physical or sexual abuse—is a false teacher and should not be trusted; sex and intimacy must never be used to harm, manipulate, or shame. If you are experiencing abuse or coercion in your marriage or home, prioritize getting to safety before seeking spiritual direction.

Key points:

• Using God's word to excuse personal sin or abuse identifies a false teacher.
• Sex and intimacy should never be wielded to cause fear, harm, manipulation, humiliation, shame, or pressure.
• Do not listen to or believe leaders who normalize or minimize abusive behavior under the guise of Scripture.
• If you are in an abusive or coercive situation at home, leave and get safe first.
• Once safe, you can more clearly hear God's guidance about what to do next.

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