"The Jordan Rules" I Rev. Dr. Howard-John Wesley I Father's Day 2026

Main message: Using Jesus' baptism at the Jordan as a model, the sermon argues that a father's chief responsibilities are to show up for his children, affirm their identity and worth, launch them with everything at his disposal, and point them to God as their ultimate source of power.

Key points:

• Presence over provision: being physically and emotionally present proves a child is a priority and matters more than gifts.
• Speak identity and potential: fathers should declare who their children are (you are...), which unlocks confidence and purpose.
• Proud affirmation and unconditional love: children need to hear "I'm proud of you" and "I love you" even when they fail or don't meet expectations.
• Prepare, aim, launch: use your resources and influence to open opportunities for your children, but don't force them to fulfill your unrealized dreams.
• Equip with faith: teach and model that true strength and hope come from God so children can persevere through trials.

Scriptures mentioned: Mark 1:9, Matthew 3, Luke 3, Psalm 127