The Increase of God in our Relationships - Pastor Dan & Jessica Roth

Main message: God blesses both marriage and singleness as gifts; Christians should pursue holiness and discernment in relationships, prioritizing devotion to God, godly character, and clear boundaries rather than cultural pressure or compromise.

Key points:

• Singleness is not second-class — Paul affirms celibacy can be a gift that allows focused devotion to the Lord; marriage is also a God-given gift for those who need it.
• Some are single by choice, by circumstance, or by design (Jesus’ teaching about eunuchs); all such states can be honorable before God.
• When seeking a spouse, look for genuine faith and the fruit of the Spirit (character, patience, kindness), not just outward religiosity or attraction.
• Avoid "missionary dating" or compromising convictions; do not date or marry someone who is not a committed believer (don’t be unequally yoked).
• Put godly standards and boundaries in place while dating (accountability/third wheels, curfews, praying together, sexual purity) and don’t force relationships that aren’t right.
• Practical counsel from the speakers: cultivate your own faith and maturity, seek mentors, be patient in disclosure (don’t prematurely declare “she’s the one”), and men should be bold to ask.

Scriptures mentioned: Psalm 128:1–3, 1 Corinthians 7:7, 1 Corinthians 7:32–35, 2 Corinthians 6:14