Oop!

Main message: Choose a spouse who already accepts and matches who you are; you can't rely on changing someone after marriage, so confirm compatibility beforehand. The preacher summarized this with the principle "what you see is what you get" and the Bible's line about walking together only when agreed.

Key points:

• Find out whether a person has drive and is compatible before marrying them.
• Men: don't marry a woman who won't accept you as you are.
• Women: don't marry a man expecting you'll prod him into being someone else.
• Marriage requires agreement/compatibility—don't assume marriage will fix fundamental differences.

Scriptures mentioned: none