I’m not being petty, I’ve seen your pattern.

Main message: You can genuinely forgive someone while still ending the relationship; walking away can be a perceptive act of boundary-setting, not pettiness or unforgiveness.

Key points:

• Forgiveness does not automatically require continued closeness or reconciliation.
• Saying "I'm done" can be protective recognition of a repeated pattern, not punishment.
• You're not necessarily holding a grudge; you're holding yourself to a standard.
• Sometimes people change later or for someone else — that doesn't invalidate your choice to step away.
• Distinguish being perceptive and prudent from being petty.

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